I know i know it sounds crazy but hear me out.
its like if you have ever dated some one or spend time with that person as a friend b4 dating her you come to find out about all these little quirks that you are just totaly unsure weather to deal or not.*referance one*(in other words in holdem if you figure out someones got a really good hand but you also have a good hand what do you do fold or take the chance)
its like have you ever dated someone who dosent talk to you or tell you anything and then just one day up and starts to hate your guts.*referance two*
(meaning some of your good freinds you play holdem with and can constantly beat,and then one day he stops playing the game)
like if you ever dated someone and that someone is flirting with your best friend or even worse*referance three*(in holdem you stare down your opponant to figure out weather or not hes got a good genuine hand or if hes completely bsing his way to victory)
both dating and holdem require a ton of $$$$*referance four (i dont think i have to explain this one~!)
and the most annoying thing is this, when playing holdem and dating if you let your guard down it always has a difficult consequence.

so there ya have it i could think of more but im sick of typing on this darn compy!

oh and yes i lost saturday night to a 4 of a kind(J J J J)
which sucked cause i was chip leader for a min.grrrr coulda won $70.00
but on a second game i won $20.00 so i guess i made out good.